In an interview with USA Today, Shlesinger said that "the first two-thirds of the movie are the mostly true parts," stating that the real story "ended with a whimper, not with a bang." She also said that unlike the 94-minute Netflix movie, her real-life disastrous relationship unfolded like "one very slow, drawn-out car wreck."
Over the years, Iliza Shlesinger has told the story of her nightmarish boyfriend several times, including during a 2014 episode of The Joe Rogan Experience podcast, as well as in her 2015 stand-up segment "Lying Brian" on Comedy Central's This Is Not Happening. She refers to the boyfriend simply as "Brian". She does say a full name at the end of her bit, but Comedy Central beeps it out. While fans have wondered about his true identity (some fans in a Reddit thread have attempted to figure it out), the most that we can confirm is that she dated him in her early 30s and they broke up around the beginning of 2014.
Shlesinger says in addition to the fact that she and her character, Andrea Singer, are both comedians, they are similar in fundamental ways as well. "I think Hollywood would lead you to believe women are hapless in love, or hopeless romantics, or clumsy, or too strong and have it coming, when in actuality most women are not hot messes," she told USA Today. "Most women do take care of themselves and have a career and friends and an enriching life and are dating and dating whoever they choose."
Similar to her character, she says that she is driven, is not insecure, and is able to trust others, traits that are not often found in female characters, especially in romantic comedies. "She's just a normal girl who is working her way through life, works on her career, loves her friends, and kind of gets something that she doesn't deserve," says Shlesinger. "She's more like a normal girl than we see in romantic comedies. She's not hapless. ... She didn't need any saving." -Daily News
Yes. The Good on Paper true story confirms that this is indeed how she met her lying ex-boyfriend. She described meeting him on a plane during her 2015 stand-up segment titled "Lying Brian" on Comedy Central's This Is Not Happening, as well as during her 2014 Joe Rogan Experience podcast appearance.
Yes. "I went with my friend Laura to his apartment," recalled Shlesinger, "and it wasn't the house that we thought it was." They knocked on the door and discovered that he had a female roommate. The roommate told them that he was up to his eyeballs in debt. Shlesinger and her mom also called the club where he said he belonged, only to discover he wasn't a member. -USA Today
Yes. In the Good on Paper movie, Andrea Singer (Iliza Shlesinger) is talking to Dennis Kelly (Ryan Hansen) on the phone when he tells her that his mother has cancer. A fact-check confirms that he revealed the news the same night that she had gone out to dinner with an attractive, muscular friend. In the movie, the good-looking friend is portrayed by The Bachelor's Tyler Cameron. Shlesinger posted a picture to Instagram of herself and her friend at dinner and thinks that is what triggered her boyfriend to call and reveal that his mother had cancer. "I think he saw that picture on Instagram, and he was like, 'I gotta do somethin' to shake this up.'"
During an interview with Screen Rant, Iliza Shlesinger indicated that her character's close friendship with Margot (Margaret Cho) in the movie was loosely based on the strong bond she has with her own best friend.
"We were friends for about a year," she said. "A little bit after a year, we dated for about three months. It was only at the end of that, that I started to put together he had lied about every single thing since the day I met him." -Daily News
Yes. The Good on Paper true story reveals that after the truth started to emerge, the real Dennis Kelly, whose first name seems to be Brian, did come clean with Shlesinger and admitted to her that he lied. He implied that the lying had spiraled out of control. "Every day it was just me terrified of the next day," he told her. -USA Today
No. Iliza Shlesinger described the real-life ending as being far less climactic. "I sent a text, and I said, 'I know you didn't go to Yale,' and he wrote back something to the extent of, 'I did not go to Yale. I've been lying to you every day since the day I met you.'" Shlesinger says that her mom had called the Yale Registrar's Office and confirmed that they hadn't had a graduate with his name since around 1985. After her mother Googled him, she found out in his bio on his employer's website that he went to the University of Ohio. -USA Today
Shlesinger said that after she learned that her boyfriend had lied about who he was, it really stopped her in her tracks. She said that the relationship had felt serious and that he had even talked about getting married. She remarked that the break-up, which happened in early 2014, was painful, but turning it into art was a cathartic process that allowed her to heal. When she thinks about it now, she thinks about the happy memories of making the Good on Paper movie instead of the painful memories of her experience. -Screen Rant YouTube